害羞男生福音:跟女生搭訕10個妙招!
作者:滬江英語編譯
2011-10-06 14:00
10 輕松say hey
10 打個招呼,say “hey”
This simple word is really one of the most powerful tools to use when you want to talk to a women because it's natural.
“hey”這個再簡單不過的話語其實是和女生搭訕的最有利武器,因為它聽起來夠自然。
9 干杯!
9 在喝酒的話,用“干杯”搭訕
If you're in a bar or club, one of the easiest ways to start talking to a woman is to simply raise your glass to hers and say: “Cheers!” It’s simple, polite, and paves the way for future conversation.
如果在酒吧或者俱樂部,最容易和女生搭上話的一個方法就是舉起你的酒杯,跟她說:“干杯!”既簡單又禮貌,還未接下來的說話打了基礎(chǔ)。
8 沒話找話
8 沒話找話
Wherever you are, you’re sure to find something really unusual that’s discussion-worthy. You may observe a person wearing outrageous clothing, somebody acting inappropriately, a fight, etc. Use whatever is happening around you for the conversation, especially if she shows some sort of reaction to it.
不管你在哪里,肯定都能在你周圍找到那么點值得聊的話題。也許會有個著裝怪異的人、舉止奇怪的人、爭吵...好好抓住在你身邊發(fā)生的一切來制造話題,特別是當(dāng)她對這件事也表現(xiàn)出一定反應(yīng)的時候。
7 關(guān)注熱門話題
7 多多注意最近熱門話題
Before you go out tonight, read up on the news today and stay informed on the latest celebrity gossip and entertainment news. This is perfect material for conversations.
在你出門之前,最好多看看今天的新聞,時刻保持對明星最新動態(tài)和娛樂消息的關(guān)注。這絕對是和女性聊天的絕佳材料。
6 問問她的意見
6 詢問意見
One of the most effective ways to start a conversation is to ask her opinion on something. This works especially well with groups of women, and with a topic they would love to talk about. Fashion, relationships, celebrity gossip: the topics are endless. The important thing to remember is to make it look like you are actually interested in getting someone’s opinion.
另外一種相當(dāng)有效的搭訕方式就是向她征詢意見。這一招在一部分女人身上相當(dāng)有效,特別是談到她們感興趣的話題的時候。時尚、婚戀、明星八卦...各種話題。要注意的一個重要問題就是,你要表現(xiàn)出在這個問題上你相當(dāng)需要別人的意見。
5 準(zhǔn)備些好玩的小故事
5 準(zhǔn)備些好玩的小故事
Always have a few interesting and unique stories. Think about them before you go out so they are at your disposal. They should be stories that are smooth conversation starters.
隨時有些好玩又不合人家撞車的小段子。在出門前想好要說哪幾個小故事,而且這些小故事最好是要方便開啟話題的。
4 和她玩?zhèn)€游戲
4 玩?zhèn)€小游戲
There are tons of fun little games you can play that will get a woman locked into a conversation with you. Try some fun, playful games to get her attention.
能讓女人想和你聊天的小游戲還挺多的。試著用一些好玩、有趣的游戲來吸引她的注意吧。
3 和她打個賭
3 和她打個賭
Just as engaging as a game, you could also make a bet. Here’s a great one: Bet her that you will remember her name the entire evening and if you forget, you have to buy her a drink. But to make it even, she has to remember your name, or she buys you a drink.
類似于玩游戲,你還可以和她打個賭。比如你可以跟她大度,你今晚肯定會記住她的名字,如果你沒記住就請她喝杯東西,公平起見,她也得記住你的名字,否則她就要請你喝杯東西。
2 聊聊別人
2 聊聊別人
If you spot a person who fails horribly while trying to pick up on a woman, approach her shortly after he leaves. Ask her: “So how did he do?”
如果她剛遇到一個比較“囧”的男人搭訕,那么你可以在這個男人剛走之后上前問她:“他怎么可以那么囧?”
1 故意讓她偷聽到
1 故意讓她偷聽到
This technique is different in the sense that rather than approaching her, she will overhear you talking to a friend and will feel compelled to approach you to find out what you are discussing.?
這招不同于之前的主動出擊,讓她不小心偷聽到你和朋友的談話,然后讓她對你們的談話表現(xiàn)出極其強烈的好奇感。