Here is a sure-fire way of getting your kids to do what you want with minimum hassle. Learn how to deal with a naughty kid in public with VideoJug, something many parents find hard to do!

為大家提供一個讓孩子聽話的最好方法，省去你不必要的麻煩。跟著Videojug學學在公共場合如何應對頑皮的孩子，讓眾家長不再為此而感到頭疼。

Step 1: What Not To Do

舉個孩子不聽話的例子。

First, here is an example of how not to get your kid to do what you want:

首先，給大家舉個孩子不聽話的例子：

Daddy: Molly, put your coat on please
莫莉，穿上外套吧。
Molly ignores him
莫莉沒理爸爸。
Daddy: Molly if you don't put your coat on you'll get cold
莫莉，你要是不穿外套會冷的。
Molly: No I won't….
不，我不穿。
Daddy: Your mummy gave you that coat for your birthday, and she would want you to put it on.
這件外套是你媽媽送你的生日禮物，她想讓你穿上。
Molly: No, actually she gave it to me for Christmas.
不，事實上這是媽媽在圣誕節(jié)送我的。

This Daddy is giving different reasons for putting the coat on each time, hoping that one will stick. This is a gift for a contrary kid. She can pick just one flaw in your argument - in this case that the coat was a Christmas, not a birthday present- and start an argument.

這位爸爸每次都在想不同的理由讓孩子穿外套，以期其中之一會奏效。這是一個有叛逆心理的小孩兒，她會挑出你話里的任何小毛病-在以上對話中，這件外套是一個圣誕節(jié)禮物，而不是一件生日禮物-爭論便從這里開始。

Step 2: What To Do

2.如何應對

The less ammunition the kid has, the less they can argue. Instead try this:

不給孩子把柄，讓他們沒的爭論。其實可以試著對孩子這樣說：

Daddy: Put you coat on please, it's cold
把外套穿上吧，天冷了。
Molly: No!
不！
Daddy: Please put your coat on
把衣服穿上吧。
Molly: No!
不！
Daddy: Coat on!
把衣服穿上！
Molly: No!
不！
Daddy: Coat!
衣服！
Molly: No!
不！
Daddy: Coat!
衣服！
Molly: Ohhh, Ok…
哦，好吧...

Here, Daddy gave one solid reason, and then stuck to it. Then he used fewer and fewer words until the kid complied. He didn't need to get angry with the kid, just insistent, and there was nothing for her to argue about.

在上段對話中，這位爸爸先給出了一個堅實的理由，然后一直堅持，并且，話越說越簡潔，直到孩子順從。他無須對孩子發(fā)飆，貴在堅持，不給她留有爭論的余地。

Step 3: Remember to say thank you

3.記得鼓勵孩子

Always thank the child for doing what they were asked. Everyone likes to be thanked. If they have been extra specially good, buy them a hot chocolate, or give them a ride on your shoulders.

當孩子按照你的意愿做了什么事之后，別忘了小小獎勵一下他們。每個人都樂意接受獎勵。如果孩子表現(xiàn)特別好，給他們買杯熱巧克力，或者讓他們騎在你的肩膀上。



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