16.We sometimes do things that are permanently foolish just because we are temporarily upset. A lot of heartache can be avoided if you learn to control your emotions.
有時(shí)候我們會(huì)因?yàn)橐粫r(shí)的失意做出讓我們抱憾終身的事情。學(xué)會(huì)控制你的情緒,你就不會(huì)為很多無(wú)謂的事情心痛了。

17.Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right. There are many roads to what’s right. You cannot judge others by your own past. They are living a different life than you. What might be good for one person may not be good for another. What might be bad for one person might change another person’s life for the better. You have to allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decisions.
縱然你是對(duì)的,你也不能全盤(pán)否定別人。正確的定義有很多。你不能將你的價(jià)值觀強(qiáng)加在別人身上。每個(gè)人都是不同的。對(duì)于這個(gè)人而言這是對(duì)的,但對(duì)那個(gè)人卻不一定。同樣的,也許對(duì)某人不利的卻改善了另一個(gè)人的一生。你得允許別人犯錯(cuò),也要允許他們自己做決定。

18.Nobody is perfect, and nobody deserves to be perfect. Nobody has it easy. You never know what people are going through. Every one of us has issues. So don’t belittle yourself or anyone else. Everybody is fighting their own unique war.
人無(wú)完人,也沒(méi)有必須完美。每個(gè)人過(guò)得都不容易。你不會(huì)知道他們都經(jīng)歷了些什么。每個(gè)人都有自己要去做的事情。所以,不要輕視你自己或者他人。每個(gè)人都有自己要去應(yīng)對(duì)的戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)。

19.A smile doesn’t always mean a person is happy. Sometimes it simply means they are strong enough to face their problems.
有時(shí)候,微笑,并不代表快樂(lè)。僅僅說(shuō)明面對(duì)困難,我們足夠堅(jiān)強(qiáng)。

20.The happiest people I know keep an open mind to new ideas and ventures, use their leisure time as a means of mental development, and love good music, good books, good pictures, good company and good conversation. And oftentimes they are also the cause of happiness in others – me in particular.
我認(rèn)識(shí)的最快樂(lè)的人,他們思想開(kāi)放、敢于冒險(xiǎn);他們會(huì)利用閑暇時(shí)光來(lái)提升心智,熱愛(ài)高雅的音樂(lè)、有深度的書(shū)籍、精美的畫(huà)作、杰出的工作伙伴還有睿智的談話。通常,他們也是其他人快樂(lè)的源泉——對(duì)我尤其如此。

21.You can’t take things too personally. Rarely do people do things because of you. They do things because of them.
你不能太主觀臆斷。沒(méi)有人是生下來(lái)就為你而活的。他們的所作所為也是為了他們自己。

22.Feelings change, people change, and time keeps rolling. You can hold on to past mistakes or you can create your own happiness. A smile is a choice, not a miracle. True happiness comes from within. Don’t make the mistake of waiting on someone or something to come along and make you happy.
情變了、人變了、而時(shí)間依然在向前奔跑。你可以選擇繼續(xù)沉溺于過(guò)去的失敗,或是開(kāi)創(chuàng)你自己新的幸福。微笑,只是一個(gè)選擇,不是奇跡。真正的幸福是發(fā)自內(nèi)心的。不要以為會(huì)有某個(gè)人或某件事來(lái)給你幸福。

23.It’s much harder to change the length of your life than it is to change the depth of it.
我們無(wú)法改變?nèi)松拈L(zhǎng)度,卻可以改變它的深度。

24.You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.最終,那些你后悔“沒(méi)做”的事情,總是比“做過(guò)”的事情要多。

25.When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.
當(dāng)你不再執(zhí)迷不悟時(shí),你給了自己一個(gè)機(jī)會(huì),去走上正確的道路。

26.One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else.
人生一大難事,就是做你自己。因?yàn)榭偸怯心敲炊嗟囊蛩刈屇阕兊煤蛣e人一樣。

27.Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and discover they were the big things.
珍惜不起眼的“小”,因?yàn)椋幸惶?,?dāng)你回首往事,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)那些看似微不足道的“小”,才是真正的“大”。

28.Anyone can make a difference. Making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world.
人人都能改變世界。讓人微笑并不會(huì)改變整個(gè)世界,但會(huì)改變他(她)自己的世界。

29.Everything is a life lesson. Everyone you meet, everything you encounter, etc. They’re all part of the learning experience we call ‘life.’ Never forget to acknowledge the lesson, especially when things don’t go your way. If you don’t get a job that you wanted or a relationship doesn’t work, it only means something better is out there waiting. And the lesson you just learned is the first step towards it.
生活中,到處都是學(xué)堂。每一個(gè)你遇見(jiàn)的人、每一件你經(jīng)歷的事情等等,它們共同組成了這樣一個(gè)大學(xué)堂,我們稱之為“人生”。你應(yīng)該感謝它們,特別是當(dāng)你遇到不順時(shí)。如果你找不到心儀的工作,人際關(guān)系不和諧,不要擔(dān)心,這意味著有更好的正在遠(yuǎn)處等著你。就在剛才,你已經(jīng)學(xué)會(huì)了一課,那就是勇敢得邁出第一步。

30.Regardless of how filthy your past has been, your future is still spotless. Don’t start your day with the broken pieces of yesterday. Every day is a fresh start. Each day is a new beginning. Every morning we wake up is the first day of the rest of our life.
不管你的過(guò)去有多糟糕,你的未來(lái)仍是一塵未染的。不要帶著昨日的殘片來(lái)開(kāi)始今天的生活。每一天都是新的開(kāi)始。每天早上醒來(lái),又是余下人生的第一天。