選自美國(guó)著名女作家安娜?昆德林（Anna Quindlen）在維拉諾瓦大學(xué)（Villanova University）獲得榮譽(yù)博士之后在畢業(yè)典禮上的演講。她分享了自己對(duì)真正生活的理解。
Get a life in which you are not alone. Find people you love, and who love you. And remember that love is not leisure, it is work. Each time you look at your diploma, remember that you are still a student, still learning how to best treasure your connection to others. Pick up the phone. Send an e-mail. Write a letter. Kiss your Mom. Hug your Dad.
在你追尋的生活中，你不應(yīng)是孤獨(dú)的。找到你愛(ài)并且愛(ài)你的人。記?。簮?ài)并不是悠閑自在的，它需要付出努力。每次看到你的文憑時(shí)，要記住你還是個(gè)學(xué)生，還在學(xué)習(xí)如何最好地珍惜你與他人的關(guān)系。給他們打個(gè)電話，給他們發(fā)個(gè)郵件，給他們寫(xiě)封信。親吻你的母親，擁抱你的父親。