20歲女人懵懵懂懂，充滿青春的活力，對(duì)什么都勇于嘗試，但往往不定性；30歲女人成熟優(yōu)雅，做事圓滑，尋覓安定，但往往思前顧后；40歲女人，靜謐淡然，經(jīng)歷風(fēng)雨，睿智瀟灑，但往往面臨抉擇。無(wú)論是誰(shuí)都請(qǐng)認(rèn)真生活，沒(méi)有什么可以重來(lái)！

What I Know About Love Now That I'm In My 20s
20女人：

1.You can't change or save anyone, so stop trying.
你不能改變或拯救任何人，所以不要再做這些事了。

2.If anyone is going through anyone's email inbox/phone/Facebook account, you shouldn't be together.
如果對(duì)方想要看你的郵箱、或電話、或社交網(wǎng)絡(luò)賬戶，那么你倆不合適。

3.Be okay with yourself.
對(duì)自己好一點(diǎn)。

4.You chose the friends you have for a reason. Take their advice seriously.
你選擇和某人交朋友總有你自己的原因。所以，認(rèn)真對(duì)待朋友給出的意見(jiàn)。

5.Don't feel guilty about breaking up with someone.
不要因?yàn)楹湍橙朔质至硕械接谛牟话病?/div>

What I Know About Love Now That I'm In My 30s
30女人：

1.Being in a relationship doesn't automatically make you a happier person.
開(kāi)始了一段感情，不代表你就能活得更加快樂(lè)。

2.If he seems unavailable, he is.
如果他看起來(lái)遙不可及，那么他就是。

3.Marriage isn't an accomplishment.
婚姻不是一項(xiàng)任務(wù)。

4.Sex is not an accurate relationship barometer.
性不是衡量?jī)扇岁P(guān)系的晴雨表。

5.Male friends are important.
異性朋友很重要。

What I Know About Love Now That I'm In My 40s
40女人：

1.Sometimes love is not a feeling...it's a choice.
有時(shí)候，愛(ài)不是一種感覺(jué)，而是一種選擇。

2.Sacrifice. But not too much.
敢于做出犧牲。但不要犧牲得太多。

3.Have role models.
找個(gè)榜樣來(lái)學(xué)習(xí)。

4.Be yourself.
做你自己。

5.Be brave, funny, and kind.
勇敢一點(diǎn)、風(fēng)趣一點(diǎn)、友善一點(diǎn)。