Ask any man who has been in a relationship and he is sure to tell you that more than the expensive dates and costly gifts,the small gestures and little things made all the difference. To sustain any relationship you don’t need a pocket full of money. What you need is a heart full of love and a brain filled with ideas to woo and be good to her. Keeping this notion in mind, here is the low-down of all the little things that count in a relationship.
如果去問任何一個(gè)在戀愛中的男人，他會(huì)很肯定得告訴你，真正維系關(guān)系的是一些小手勢(shì)和細(xì)節(jié)，而不是那些花費(fèi)昂貴的約會(huì)和禮物。要維系一段感情并不需要有大量的金錢。真正需要的是你有一顆充滿愛的心，腦海中時(shí)時(shí)能蹦跶出如何對(duì)女友好的想法。記住這一點(diǎn)，下面是列舉出在感情中需要注意的細(xì)節(jié)。

1. A good-morning / good-night text
1.一個(gè)早安/晚安的短信

You can make your girl’s day by sending her a lovie-dovie ‘good morning’ text. Nothing makes a girl happier than waking up to a lovely message that wishes her a great day ahead. In case you missed the opportunity to text her in the morning, don’t worry. Send her a good night text and make sure to tuck her in and kiss her good night. She will sleep with the biggest smile on her face and will surely dream of you all night.
如果發(fā)一個(gè)暖心“早安”的短信給女友，她的一天都會(huì)過得很開心。用一個(gè)可愛的短信叫醒女友，讓她有個(gè)美好的一天是一件無比幸福的事情。如果你錯(cuò)過了早晨發(fā)短信的機(jī)會(huì)，別擔(dān)心，發(fā)個(gè)晚安給她，給她一個(gè)吻。她會(huì)面帶笑意地睡覺，絕對(duì)會(huì)夢(mèng)到你。

2. Drop her home safely
2.要把她安全的送回家中

When I make the above point I don't expect you to become her personal chauffeur. What you are expected to be is gentleman who drops his girl home after a date or at least offers to do so. This in no way suggests she cannot go alone, or that you alone can protect her. Simply put, it is a kind and chivalrous thing to do and so you must do it.
在寫這一點(diǎn)的時(shí)候，我并不期盼你成為她的私人司機(jī)。你需要做的是在約會(huì)之后紳士地送女友回家或至少要提出這一點(diǎn)。這并不是說她絕對(duì)不能自己走，或者你一個(gè)人絕對(duì)能保護(hù)她。這只是一個(gè)很友善的和紳士的行為，所以你必須要做。

3. Be her confidante
3.成為她的知己

One of the most precious facets of a relationship is the ability to share and talk random stuff. Listen and accept your partner’s secrets (be it the heavy and serious ones or the outright dumb and funny ones) and become her confidante. In turn, do make it a point to share yours. By doing so, you will open up the channel of communication and facilitate free-talk and the fostering of trust.
戀愛中最珍貴的一點(diǎn)是能夠隨心所欲地分享和交談。聆聽，保守戀人的秘密（無論是嚴(yán)肅認(rèn)真的還是傻傻有趣的），成為她的知己。反過來，你也要去分享自己的秘密。這樣就可以建立一個(gè)交流和自由對(duì)話的橋梁，進(jìn)而有了信任。

4. Remember dates
4.記得重要的日子

Women have a huge problem with a man’s inability to remember dates. You must avoid pissing her off by making an attempt to remember the dates that matter. Store them in your phone calendar or stick post-its on your office desk if you must, but do not forget important dates!
男人總是不能記住重要的日子是女人們的一大煩惱。你必須要記住重要的日子，才能不讓她失望。把這些日子存在手機(jī)的日歷里，或者在辦公桌上貼上便簽，千萬別忘了重要的日子！

5. Share your ambitions
5.分享你的志向

Opening up to your girl and letting her in on your ambitions and career plans makes her feel needed and important. So don’t shy away from discussing work with her. Ask her for suggestions and inputs and she might just surprise you with her ability to solve your work related problems.
向你的女朋友展示你的志向和工作計(jì)劃，讓她覺得她也是被需要的，她很重要。所以別害羞與她談?wù)摴ぷ鞯氖虑?，問她一些建議，她解決相關(guān)工作問題的能力也許會(huì)讓你大吃一驚。