Talk About Marriage 談?wù)摶橐?/strong>

“我們這一代人似乎想掙脫某種義務(wù)的束縛，把婚姻視作泥潭中的鱷魚……”

"But the poor kids today, either they're too selfish to take part in a real loving relationship, or they rush into marriage and then six months later, they get divorced. They don't know what they want in a partner. They don't know who they are themselves-so how can they know who they're marrying?"
“可是現(xiàn)在這些可憐的年輕人，要么過于自私而無(wú)法和別人建立真誠(chéng)的戀愛關(guān)系，要么輕率地走進(jìn)婚姻殿堂，然后六個(gè)月后又匆匆地逃了出來(lái)。他們并不清楚要從伴侶那兒得到什么。他們連自己也無(wú)法認(rèn)清——又如何去認(rèn)識(shí)他們要嫁娶的人呢？

"There are a few rules I know to be true about love and marriage: If you don't respect the other person, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. If you don't know how to compromise, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. If you can't talk openly about what goes on between you, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. And if you don't have a common set of values in life, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. Your values must be alike. And the biggest one of those values?"
"Your belief in the importance of your marriage."
“愛情和婚姻還是有章可循的：如果你不尊重對(duì)方，你們的關(guān)系就會(huì)有麻煩；如果你不懂怎樣妥協(xié)，你們的關(guān)系就會(huì)有麻煩；如果你們彼此不能開誠(chéng)布公地交流，你們的關(guān)系就會(huì)有麻煩；如果你們沒有共同的價(jià)值觀，你們同樣會(huì)有麻煩。你們必須有相同的價(jià)值觀。而這一價(jià)值觀里最重要的是什么？”
“你們對(duì)婚姻重要性的信念?！?/div>

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