1. He says he will call you later and doesn’t.
1.他說(shuō)等會(huì)給你電話，然而并沒(méi)有來(lái)電

Letting you down is part of not allowing you to get too close. If he disappoints you now then he may feel it will limit your disappointment later on as you won’t rely on him.
讓你失望也屬于不允許你靠太近。如果他時(shí)不時(shí)讓你失望，他會(huì)覺(jué)得這樣你以后不會(huì)太失望，因?yàn)槟悴辉僖蕾?lài)他。

2.He doesn’t plan ahead with you and most of your dates are last minute
2. 他不和你提前計(jì)劃，你們多數(shù)約會(huì)都是最后一刻才定的

If?you?feel?like?you?are?the?last?resort?for?his?evening?then?you?probably?are.?
如果你覺(jué)得你是他晚上約會(huì)最后的選擇，那你估計(jì)就真的是。?

3.He doesn’t want to meet your family
3.他不想見(jiàn)你的家庭成員

Meeting the family is a sign that your relationship is serious as nobody wants to meet the parents if it’s not a long-term commitment.
見(jiàn)家人是你們關(guān)系正緊的標(biāo)志，因?yàn)橐皇且懈督K生，還有誰(shuí)要見(jiàn)家長(zhǎng)。

4.He changes the subject when you talk about your relationship
你們談?wù)搼賽?ài)關(guān)系的時(shí)候他就切換話題

This is a warning sign that he will find it uncomfortable to talk about the future or how he feels.
這便是個(gè)警示，他覺(jué)得談將來(lái)和談自己感受會(huì)不舒服。

5.He still goes out on lads' nights with his single friends
5.他依舊和單身朋友一起出去整夜玩

This could be a sign that he is keeping his options open to find someone better.
他對(duì)去找個(gè)更好的伴侶持開(kāi)放態(tài)度，這可能就是個(gè)標(biāo)志。

6. He wants you to leave his flat if he goes out and doesn’t give you a key
6.他外出時(shí)希望你也離開(kāi)公寓，而且他不給你鑰匙

He doesn’t like the idea of you being there when he gets back!
想到他回來(lái)的時(shí)候你在那兒，他就不大開(kāi)心。

7. What he makes you for breakfast
7.他給你做怎樣的早餐

If he forgets to put sugar in your tea every single time and never makes you breakfast in bed, things aren't looking good.
如果他每次都忘記在你的早餐茶飲里放糖，也不會(huì)把早餐端到床頭給你，事態(tài)就進(jìn)展不妙。

8. You don’t hear from him every day
8.你不是每天都有他的消息

He doesn’t need you if he can get on with his life quite happily without you.
如果他的生活可以快樂(lè)地繼續(xù)下去，他就不需要你。

9. There are parts of his life that he doesn’t share with you
9.他的部分生活沒(méi)有和你共享

If you want to be with someone for the long-term you share your whole life with them.
如果你要和誰(shuí)長(zhǎng)遠(yuǎn)走下去，你會(huì)和他分享你的生活。

10. Date nights
10.約會(huì)當(dāng)晚

If they're often last-minute dinners at the local pub and never with any planning or thought, it's not looking good. He doesn’t invest time thinking about how to make you happy or consider what you might enjoy.
如果總是最后一刻晚飯約在當(dāng)?shù)匦【瓢?，而從?lái)沒(méi)有思考和計(jì)劃，這不是好現(xiàn)象。他不花時(shí)間思考怎么讓你快樂(lè)，也不思考你喜歡什么。

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