No.3 - She gets physical when arguing.

排名第三：一吵架她就動手。

Couples fight. The minor disagreement has turned into a major shouting match. If you don't walk away, punches could be thrown. While you'd never hit a woman, your partner has cocked back and let one loose on you on more than one occasion.

兩個人從小吵變成大鬧，她就開始要動手了。因為我決不能對女孩子動手，就變成被動挨打……

滬江小編：老虎伍茲的事件告訴我們，家暴不僅僅是男生對女生實施的。姑娘們，如果你真的愛這個男人還是手下留情吧?。ㄈ绻皇钦鎼?、他又真是個賤人……你就當我什么都沒說過）

No.2 - She threatens to hurt/kill herself.

排名第二：她威脅會傷害或殺死自己。

She is on to the fact that you aren’t happy and might be looking for a way out. She realizes that only drastic measures will keep you around. She starts making crazy statements in the middle of arguments, like,“If you leave, I’d probably kill myself” and other threats of bodily harm. Is she serious? You don’t really want to test her but you can’t keep up like this.

當她意識到我已經(jīng)不再愛她、要和她分手的時候，她就會像瘋了一樣威脅我：“如果你離開，我就自殺！” 或是做其他傷害自己的行為。我當然不能看著她這樣，但我也不能因此就不和她分手……

滬江小編：女人，只有愛自己才會有人愛。當感情逝去，至少要優(yōu)雅地放手。如此歇斯底里，只會逼對方逃得更快，還會在他心里留下最壞的印象。

No.1 - She won't let you break up with her.

排名第一：死也不分手！

It's not going well. The relationship is a nightmare. It's time to pull the plug. Only problem: She won't let you. You've tried countless times, but she doesn't get the hint. She won't let you break up with her and every time you think she has understood the hint, she is back in your house, hanging with your mom and showing up at your work to go to lunch.

兩人關(guān)系不好，想分手。但女友無論如何就是不同意。不管我說了多少次，她都不接招。依舊要求跟我約會、往我家里跑、跟我母親出游、或是到我公司跟我吃午飯……

滬江小編：對于這樣死纏爛打的人也實在沒話說。男生們，只能勸你們一開始就擦亮眼睛了！