概述: 四代人給出的答案非常接近。。。 Hints: 21秒與44秒左右有引號
Across the generations, there was great consistency in the responses. Many studies on youth also refute the concept of a generation gap. These studies show that while young people tend to value their peers' evaluations over parents' on things like music, clothing and what's "cool", they continue to look to parents for basic values and guidance in the more important areas of life, such as career and lifetime goals. Of course, general trends can't always be applied to individual cases. It is natural to feel like there is an uncomfortable "gap" between our teens and us and that there is a need to bridge it. Perhaps, though, the problem does not lie in a difference of opinions or values, but in the way we relate to and communicate with each other.
四代人給出的答案非常接近。 許多對年輕人的研究駁斥了代溝這一觀念的存在。這些研究顯示,較之父母對音樂、服裝和何為“酷”的評價(jià),年輕人更趨于贊同伙伴的見解,與此同時(shí),在生活中更重要的方面,如職業(yè)生涯、終身目標(biāo)等,他們還是繼續(xù)依賴父母的基本價(jià)值觀和指導(dǎo)。 當(dāng)然,總趨勢是不能時(shí)時(shí)用于個(gè)例的。覺得在我們和我們的十多歲孩子之間好像存在令人不快的“代溝”,需要彌合它,這是自然的。然而,問題也許不在于見解和價(jià)值觀的不同,而在于我們相互理解和溝通的方式。