概述： 仔細地觀察一下你自己，你說“我”的次數是否過多？ Hints: 無
You can always see people who take themselves too seriously. Usually they are either brooding or talking a great deal about themselves. Take a good hard look at yourself. Do you say "I" too often? Are you usually focused on your own problems? Do you complain frequently? If you answered yes to even one of these questions, you need to lighten up. To make others comfortable, you have to appear comfortable yourself. Don't make any huge changes; just be yourself. You already have within you the power to make a good impression, because nobody can be you as well as you can.
你總會發(fā)現(xiàn)有一些人對待自己太過認真。他們通常不是在沉思，就是在滔滔不絕地談論自己。 仔細地觀察一下你自己，你說“我”的次數是否過多？你通常是否將注意力集中在你個人的問題上？你是否經常抱怨？對于上述問題，哪怕只有其中一個你給出的是肯定的回答，那么你就需要“別太當真”了。為了讓別人感到自在，你自己先要表現(xiàn)得輕松。不必作出大的改變，只需要保持自我。你本身已具備了給人留下良好印象的能力，因為要保持你的自我，只有你自己才能做得好，誰也代替不了你。