科學(xué)60秒:獲得尊重比其他更快樂
來源:滬江聽寫酷
2011-07-05 10:00
Remember ______1______? [“Because I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and doggonit, people like me.”] Well, if Stuart Smalley’s ______2______ makes you smile, you’re not alone. Because a new study shows that young people would rather ______3_____ their self-esteem than see a friend, have a drink or cash a big fat paycheck. The results appear in the Journal of Personality.
We all like feeling good about ourselves. But can a little praise really ______4_____ a slice of pizza, a great party or a wad of cash? College students were given a questionnaire. And they were asked to rate various activities based on how much they liked or wanted them. Things like: drinking, hanging with friends, having sex, and getting paid.
The results? Undergrads do like those things. But not as much as they say they like getting good grades or a compliment. Study author Brad Bushman says “American society seems to believe that self-esteem is the cure all for every social ill, from bad grades to teen pregnancies to violence. But there has been no evidence that _____5_____ actually helps with these problems. We may be too focused on increasing self-esteem.”
【視聽版科學(xué)小組榮譽(yù)出品】
We all like feeling good about ourselves. But can a little praise really ______4_____ a slice of pizza, a great party or a wad of cash? College students were given a questionnaire. And they were asked to rate various activities based on how much they liked or wanted them. Things like: drinking, hanging with friends, having sex, and getting paid.
The results? Undergrads do like those things. But not as much as they say they like getting good grades or a compliment. Study author Brad Bushman says “American society seems to believe that self-esteem is the cure all for every social ill, from bad grades to teen pregnancies to violence. But there has been no evidence that _____5_____ actually helps with these problems. We may be too focused on increasing self-esteem.”
【視聽版科學(xué)小組榮譽(yù)出品】
affirmations
shot in the arm
pump up
trump
boosting self-esteem
獲得尊重比其他更快樂
還記得自我肯定法嗎?“我夠好了,我夠聰明了,真是該死,大家都這么喜歡我。”好吧,如果斯?fàn)枅D特·斯莫利的一番鼓勵(lì)讓你咧嘴一笑的話,還有很多人跟你一樣。因?yàn)樾碌难芯堪l(fā)現(xiàn),比起和朋友見面、喝酒或是兌換一張巨額支票,年輕人更渴望獲得別人的尊重。此研究結(jié)果發(fā)表在《個(gè)性雜志》上。
我們都愿意對(duì)自己有個(gè)良好的感覺。但一個(gè)小小的稱贊真的能擊敗一塊比薩、一個(gè)很棒的聚會(huì)或一疊鈔票嗎?我們讓大學(xué)生做一份調(diào)查問卷。他們需要根據(jù)自己對(duì)各種活動(dòng)的喜好程度評(píng)價(jià)這些活動(dòng)。這些活動(dòng)包括:喝酒、與朋友在一起消磨時(shí)間、做愛、以及領(lǐng)工資等。
結(jié)果如何呢?學(xué)生們的確喜歡這些活動(dòng)。但他們說得到好成績和獲得稱贊比這些更加重要。此研究的帶頭人布拉德·布什曼說:“美國社會(huì)似乎認(rèn)為自尊是解決所有社會(huì)問題的良藥,包括成績不好,青少年懷孕以及暴力行為等。但并沒有跡象表明增加自尊可以幫助解決這些問題。我們也許過于看重提升自尊的重要性了?!?/div>
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